ABOUT THE OASIS
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOUL!
My name is Love Atiya and my pleasure journey intentionally began when I was 16 years old when my mom bought me my first vibrator. My goal was simple: teach me to prioritize and explore my OWN pleasure in a safe space, without guilt or shame.
Around a decade later, I realized in addition to my passion in animal rights, I was also deeply passionate about women and our rights surrounding pleasure as a WHOLE.
What originally began as sexual exploration has expanded beyond my wildest imagination. I became fascinated with figuring out all the ways we could feel more pleasure as a whole.
This became about more than an orgasm, it's an entire pleasure revolution and the fact that you're here shows me that you're ready to take the next step but first... let's talk about why we are NOT to blame for our internal shame.
SOCIAL MEDIA & CENSORSHIP
A lot of you have been with me since my very first viral post on TikTok where I spoke about the first time I had sex when I was 24 and all of the myths I wanted to bust about "virginities" (which are just another patriarchal construct btw) but 3.9 million of you all were very curious about my experience and the questions came rolling in!
I went so deep into the rabbit hole of pleasure education that I learned I'd been calling my own genitals by the wrong name for TWENTY FOUR YEARS.
Why didn't I know what an actual vulva was? And that urine didn't come out of my vaginal entrance but instead out of my uretha?!
That's because when our parents and our parents parents were taught in school the lesson was simple.
Don't have sex and don't ask any questions.
If they aren't teaching children about their anatomy and consent in school in 2026 then they definitely weren't when our elders were in school.
So I continued to learn and share the things I'd learned until... censorship entered the chat.
Censorship basically means hiding information that may inform, educate or empower others in ways that oppose the things that society was trying to enfore.
This includes social media posts about sex education AND PLEASURE... yes PLEASURE, the thing we should be feeling in life as a whole even outside of our sexuality.
If one of my posts included the word pleasure, it would get about 5 views but if I talked about my trauma or pain I was experiencing it would reach the masses... ain't that some shit?
That's where the Oasis and my Podcast the IADGAF Podcast (formally known as the The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) come into play.
HERE IS WHERE YOU ARE REMINDED THAT
PLEASURE IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT
OUR MISSION
We aim to dismantle outdated beliefs around pleasure, replacing them with a deeper, more connected understanding that recognizes pleasure as a tool for personal power, healing, social justice, and collective liberation.
Through holistic education, pleasure activism, and radical self-empowerment, we seek to inspire a new generation of pleasure warriors just like YOU.
OUR GOAL
At the Ethereal Pleasure Oasis,
our vision is to create a world where pleasure is embraced as a fundamental human right, accessible to all, free from shame, stigma, or restriction.
We envision an amazing a$$ global community where people like YOU are empowered to explore, understand, and express your unique desires in ways that are authentic, joyful, healing and transformative.
ABOUT OUR PLEASURE SHOP
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Q. Is shipping discreet?
A. Absolutely. Our shipping is 100% discreet meaning no one will know what you’ve purchased based on the box it’s shipped in & the company it comes from!
Q. Do you ship internationally?
A. Heck yes! Pleasure deserves to be felt worldwide! That’s why we provide international shipping as an option on our website!
Q. Will people know I ordered?
A. Absolutely NOT. Consent and sacredness are very important to there at Ethereal X. All orders are completely confidential.
Q. What is shadowbanning?
A. Shadowbanning is a form of censorship on social media that hides pleasure positive & sex education content from appearing on your timelines due to societal control, shame & stigma.
Q. Do I need a sex toy to feel pleasure?
A. No! Pleasure can be experienced in many ways, with many tools or with no tools at all! Although sex toys are a fun way to enhance your orgasm or experience different kinds of sensations, it is not mandatory to own or use a sex toy in order to feel pleasure.
Q. How do I know what products are right for me?
A. Picking the perfect pleasure products can be difficult at times. That’s why I offer 15 minute pleasure consultations to assist you in picking out the perfect toy to help maximize your pleasure experience!
Q. Are your products cruelty free?
A. We pride ourselves on exclusively selling products that are vegan and cruelty free. All of the “leather” on our site is made with faux body safe leather.
PLEASURE FACTS THAT MAY MAKE YOU SAY WTF?!
81.6%
Of women don't orgasm from intercourse alone (without additional clit stimulation)
5-10%
75%
64%
95%
Of women have never orgasmed.
Of women say their sex education in school did not include information about female pleasure or anatomy
Of women report having less satisfying sex because they feel pressured to prioritize their partner's pleasure over their own.
Of heterosexual men usually or always orgasm during partnered sex... the same doesn't go for women
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