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Nipple Orgasms & Erogenous Zones | MARCH 2023



I'm so excited to have you here for yet another month of pleasure, thank you so much again for your endless support!

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Once a month you'll receive an email featuring pleasure tips, updated musical pleasure playlists, I'll share with you things I've learned this month in the world of sex positivity & give you sex toy suggestions and exclusive access to coupons for toys & for my vegan self care company!

May this newsletter bring you many orgasms!

Life changed when I learned I could orgasm without touching my vulva.

Crazy, I know but hang in there with me.

Most of the time when we’re in a rush to orgasm, we focus on what we know and what we know will get the job done, which is usually stimulating your vulva or penis.

BUT what happens when we have/take/create the time to stimulate other parts of bodies to the point where we feel ecstasy.

My first nipple orgasm happened SPONTANEOUSLY AF but it’s like the self pleasure gods knew EXACTLY what I needed.

It actually happened pretty mindlessly as well.

Nipple play was ALWAYS my jam. Except for when I was going through puberty and used to wear band-aids on my nipples but that’s a story for the podcast.

I usually started my routines off with some nipple stimulation but this time the porn just wasn’t hitting the way I needed to and it was taking way longer than normal to find something to arouse me.

Well thank god for that because that’s when the magic happened. If you want to know more details on my first nipple O you can check out my podcast or youtube video all about it.

My first nipple orgasm had me wondering what other kinds of orgasms I could have.

First things first let’s talk about WHAT an erogenous zone even is.

According to “Any part of the body can be an erogenous zone. Erogenous comes from the Greek words “eros” (love) and “genous” (producing).

An erogenous zone is any area that can produce sexual arousal when stimulated. One theory behind these sensitive areas is that they have nerve-endings and receptors that are more attuned to light touch or gentle tickling”

Some popular erogenous zones for all genders are the nipples, thighs, scalp, wrist & ankles. BUT NOTE if you don’t feel arousal in these places YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. After all there are 30+ zones (and more if you get creative) so enjoy the exploration.

Create a masterbation ritual/ceremony.

Whenever I think about rituals I think about setting the space and time for worship, acknowledgement and celebration and who better to worship, acknowledge and celebrate than YOU!?

This tip is perfect for people (like myself) who find ourselves constantly getting stuck in a monotonous masterbation routine. Nipple play, toy on the vulva, cum 1-3x, repeat… it’s cool but it’s not always UTTERLY ORGASMIC

There’s so much more to masterbation than just toys and hands and I think practicing four play on ourselves and treating masterbation like a ceremony, instead of a task, can definitely be life changing.

The next time you masterbate I recommend you do a few of the following: Burn candles, turn on a wax burner, dance around your room to sensual/uplifting music, touch everywhere on your body except your genitals, turn on galaxy lights/change the lighting up, use wax or liquids on your body, say positive affirmations to yourself in the mirror or in bed or wherever! The list is endless and the way you do your ceremony is 100% up to YOU but this is bound to help you feel A LOT better about yourself after your masterbation session.

And remember this tip is for the her’s, he’s & they’s.

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I'm sure this is the main reason why most of you have signed up for my email blast! MY PLEASURE POSITIVE ABSOLUTELY ORGASMIC MUSICAL PLAYLIST! These playlists feature all of my favorite songs to masterbate to, plus a few suggestions from some of you beautiful souls! The spotify playlist features my top 25 songs of the month and the apple playlist and PDF playlist will be updated monthly so stay tuned for next months email which will feature brand new suggestions!


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