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Tips For Dissociation During Sex | JULY 2023

Happy last day of July my loves!


Wow this has truly been such a month of reflection, self love and self pleasure.


Is it me or have you also needed to find new ways to pleasure yourself lately? I went back to Atlanta last week and was able to get some of my favorite toys which definitely helped me bring back my excitement for self pleasure!


This month has been all about getting to the root cause of our yearning for intimacy and ways to enhance our experiences!


A recent post on my instagram (here's the link for those who may have missed it) recently went viral and brought to my attention just how many of us struggle with dissociation during sex!


It made me so sad to know some of us were struggling equally when it came to staying in the moment with our partner.


On my latest two podcast episodes I dive more deeply into some of the reasons some of us may struggle with dissociation.


I also learned about being a neurodivergent hottie and how sometimes that can also take a toll on our ability to focus during sex although i'm 99.9% sure my lack luster in staying in the moment stems from my trauma, I know that isn't the case for everyone.


Do you have any tips on how you stay in the moment during sex? Do you struggle with dissociation when you're intimate with yourself or others? Send an email to and let's talk about it on the podcast!


I recommend you check out my latest episodes of my podcast The Love Atiya Experience to unpack everything I learned about dissociation during sex, my favorite classic sex toy & more!

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The Snail Vibe (Intermediate/Advanced)

The We Vibe (Beginner, Intermediate)

The Com By Dame (Beginner, Intermediate)

The Vibe Pad 2 *Pictured above (Intermediate/Advanced)


Listening to my sex positive podcast is like listening to your best friend's hour long voicenote. The Love Atiya Experience is definitely an EXPERIENCE.


In next weeks episode we talk about what a fear of abandonment can look like and why dissociation during sex is so common!


You can click the link above to enjoy all of my podcast shenanigans.


I'm sure this is the main reason why most of you have signed up for my email blast! MY PLEASURE POSITIVE ABSOLUTELY ORGASMIC MUSICAL PLAYLIST! These playlists feature all of my favorite songs to masturbate to, plus a few suggestions from some of you beautiful souls! The spotify playlist features my top 50 songs of the month and the apple playlist and PDF playlist will be updated monthly so stay tuned for next months email which will feature brand new suggestions!


Stay Tuned For Next Months Edition + Pleasure Tips.



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