HAPPY FEBRUARY MY LOVES!
Since one of my most viewed podcast episodes was all about squirting I figured I'd share another tip during the month of LOVE.
Whether you’re in a relationship or are single as fuck like ya girl (me…i’m ya girl) this pleasure tip is for YOU.
First things first if you don’t know anything about squirting or are just really really curious to learn more CHECK OUT THIS PODCAST EPISODE from my sex positive show.
Now that we’re familiar, we first must remember, no matter the toy or the way you decide to pleasure yourself or your partner… FOREPLAY IS A MUST and I mean EXTENDED foreplay if you want to experience squirting. Your body has to be aroused, aroused!!
Please also remember that all people with vulvas may not have the “ability” to squirt and if you don’t know how to or don’t know if your body is capable that is totally okay, exploring is the fun part, your body is still normal and you are still highly talented.
Now… the big tip is, EDGE. Your orgasmic experience should feel like a LONG continuous wave of pleasure and right when you think you’re about to reach your peak, regulate your body and your nerves and hormones and start all over again.
Here’s the definition of edging: “Edging is a method of stretching out how long it takes to reach orgasm, for one or both partners. Though it’s usually thought of as a technique for men to last longer, anyone can benefit from edging. Partners learn to communicate and completely stop sexual stimulation before orgasm. They can explore other ways to touch one another, allowing that partner to cool down before continuing. This not only delays climax but can make orgasms more intense when they finally happen.
If you want to explore edging during sex, communication with your partner is key. Knowing many cycles of teasing they can handle and how to touch them during a cool-down phase is vital to success.” - WebMD
This also goes for pleasuring yourself! Edging is super fun because it tests your limits and requires a lot of self control. It’s like revving up an engine in park while experiencing an extreme adrenaline rush.
Once you master the art of edging (by practicing because it IS a practice) your entire sexual experience will change for the better.
This is also great as the article above suggested, for men who may feel like they “ejaculate at inopportune times” but we’ll talk more about that another time.
I mentioned toys earlier because I recently squirted with a new toy of mine and this happened over and over and over again. This toy is called the Namii by Biird from shopsedure.com and you can use the code LOVEATIYA for 15% off.
I wrote an ENTIRE blog about my experience so I won’t go in here but just know…I have never experienced an orgasm like this in my life. I think that’s largely due to the fact that this toy is a suction toy WITH vibration so you really get the best of both worlds. This is also a great gift (for a partner or yourself) for V-day.
If you decide to give the Namii a go or have any tips for squirting I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! You’re invited to Join The Love Club where we intimately discuss all things sex, pleasure, dating & more. This month i’m spilling tea on previous failed valentines day and sharing tips on how we can thrive through this holiday whether we’re single or taken.
I love you to the moon babes!
See you next month
USE THE CODE: LOVEATIYA for 15% off your sex toy purchase from Shopsedure.com
SEX TOY SUGGESTIONS:
The Snail Vibe (Intermediate/Advanced)
The We Vibe (Beginner, Intermediate)
The Namii by Biird Pictured Above (Intermediate)
The Com By Dame (Beginner, Intermediate)
The Vibe Pad 2 (Intermediate/Advanced)
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In this weeks episode we're talking about love, dating fails, squirting tips and more!
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I'm sure this is the main reason why most of you have signed up for my email blast! MY PLEASURE POSITIVE ABSOLUTELY ORGASMIC MUSICAL PLAYLIST! These playlists feature all of my favorite songs to masturbate to, plus a few suggestions from some of you beautiful souls! The spotify playlist features my top 50 songs of the month and the apple playlist and PDF playlist will be updated monthly so stay tuned for next months email which will feature brand new suggestions!
I LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND BACK!
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